VonGoth

      Having friends is like  a relationship of sorts.  It's a give and take, to have a friend is to be a friend.  The only way to do that is proviode a need in that firend and have them do the same.  This is the recipe to making a really good friend.  Treat others the way you want to be treated.  Give when you have and they don't and know that  someday they will back you up.  Stay in touch but don't smother your friends by too much contact, they are your friend, not your lover,family, or theapist.  Frends can hear one another and share, but never ask and receive, then be asked and never give.